For better or worse?

When I vowed for better or worse, in my mind it was not the worse that says the respect will be less, that is to say 'disrespect.' No way! I would not have subjected myself to such belittlement. The worst in my mind were external forces we would not have any control of.

It is really unjust I believe for someone to subject self to such a thing. The worse  that I vowed to keep was  as we get old together and the body succumb to age and all the things that comes with old age such as sex, strength, productivity and any other you can think of that you have no control over.

I will ensure that I discuss Marriage and the  matter of  for 'better or worse' with my children; it is imperative that they know from early what is the worse they will  endure and where they will draw the line and they should discuss it with their partner at such time.

For better or worse....with conditions!

know your purpose....do you know yours?

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